For the past few days, I have been struggling. I struggle with my photo concepts and having faith in myself even when I get the assurance from people around me. I am struggling to have a positive outlook for my own passions, even though I manage to be positive for others in my life. I struggled to find the words to blog yesterday and the day before. But most of all, I think I am struggling because I am scared to continue to put myself out there. I'm learning from this experience, because I am allowing myself to be vulnerable. I am allowing myself to tell the world exactly how I am feeling every single day of my life, and I am putting on display for anyone who wants to look my ideas of beautiful through this picture project.
But you know what? I also think I am struggling with being selective about which images I want to take because I have so many in my head, I can't commit to one. I want to do all of the photo concepts at once, which is not what the purpose of this project is. Coincidentally, this is a great metaphor for my life, because I have always been worried about making the wrong choice at the wrong time in the wrong place with the wrong people. I spend my life wondering, "What if?" I have been looking for a graduate program for the last two years and I can't seem to find one that I want to commit to, because I want to study so many things, and I want to move to so many different places and meet so many different people, that how can I just pick one? Or worse, what if I pick the wrong one? What if I say the wrong thing? What if I make the wrong move? Or, simply, what if I drive the wrong way to work and I'm late? To be honest, I'm sick of wondering what if. I'm sick of over-analyzing every little thing. I'm sick of doing exactly what I'm supposed to do, because I have done that my whole life. I've been conforming to norms and expectations that I project on myself. I have always believed there is no universal "normal," so why do I try to be normal ALL. THE. TIME.? I'm not normal. Anyone who knows me knows that I go to bed whenever I feel like (usually by 9 p.m.) and I cancel plans a couple of hours before they are supposed to happen because I "just don't feel like going out" and that I couldn't wait to be an adult and now that I am, I just want to be young and have no responsibility.
So, tonight, I am declaring to the wonderful world wide web that this blog is solely for my own growth. The blog serves as a medium for me to express myself, and if you want to walk with me on this journey, I love company!
On that note, today's concept was sunshine! So, I took a little drive around dusk and captured these two lovely photographs. I'm a huge fan of the tree silhouette one, but my brother promises that the sunset one is "sick," so here they are. Thanks for reading!
Hi Megan! Jessica from SOCI 312 and 499 here! I am really enjoying your blog! Your photos are lovely! Thank you for putting your beautiful stories out there. I am on this journey with you. I feel stuck, like I am treading water. I have a good job, which I enjoy most of the time, but I am not brave enough to quit my good, safe job out of fear for the unknown, to begin a new adventure, an adventure in which I could fail and all the pressure to succeed is on me. I feel stuck in my friendships, yet, I am the only one keeping me here, at home, night after night with my parents watching TV show after TV show. I feel like I don't have time to accomplish anything, which I don't, after watching TV for four hours. Something has got to give. I am fed up with this stagnant, dull life. Thank you for helping me realize that I am not alone in these experiences.
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